We're a little worried about you.
Your dad doesn't want you using a soldering iron because you're too young.
We recommend a solderless breadboard so you can try making some projects.
Now we find out one of your first project attempts is a Tesla Coil, and you're trying to
find some high voltage capacitors.
How's about trying a 9V battery driven bell, or a flashing LED circuit.
I think we're a little concerned that dad knows you better than we do, and you're going
to blow yourself across the room or kill yourself trying some of what you want to do.