OK, the first thing is that you should probably use a proper gate driver for the IGBT. It may be overkill in your application but it helps prevent switching losses. Switching losses can be a large contributor to the total dissipation of the device and may be unexpected.
Get the datasheet for a gate driver (I believe that mosfet and IGBT drivers are practically identical) and see if it tells you how to interface an opto-coupler to it.
Driving the optocoupler is essentially as simple as driving a LED. Choose a series resistor as you would for a LED connected to one of the outputs of the uC.
When I said the uC/Up doesn't mak any real difference, what I was saying is that there is no need for a special uP or uC. Pretty much anything will be able to be used.