PS4 lag...tried every fix I could find...PLEASE HELP!!

I live in the country and basically the most decent internet provided to us is WildBlue. Our modem is on the opposite side of the house as my ps4 and no internet runs in any of the rooms except for where they are currently at. Just want to point out first that there isn't a chance of me moving the ps4 into the room with the modem or moving the modem to any other rooms in the house.
I wanted to play online games so badly that I bought a Belkin wifi router.. the signal in my house was so poor I couldn't get into games, or stay in them for that matter...and if I could, there was nothing but myself fighting walls instead of actual people.
So I took it back and bought the "newer" $200.00 Netgear Nighthawk R7000 model version with high speeds and range.
It boosted my signal plenty throughout the house but still, not enough to play online. Frustrated, I went and bought a wifi range extender thanks to some COD buddies of mine and their "quick fix" advice.
Helped boost speeds a bit, but still.... not enough to play.

Download connection speeds went from about 15.3 kbps and upload from 53.7 kbps to about 2mbps down and 100kbps up.

So I caved and bought an Ethernet cord, drilled holes in the house and ran it directly from the new router to my ps4. Hardwired, Boom. I thought that was the ultimate fix.
Speeds went up a bunch. Down is now around 6.9-7.3mbps and up is around 335kbps.
Not amazing, but much better than before.. should definitely be enough to play online...but NO!!!! Nothing has changed.

I have a lag on Call of Duty Black Ops 3 that puts me at about 2-3 seconds behind in online gaming. That's Mississippi seconds. That also goes for all aspects of the game, shooting...reloading, moving, etc. Sometimes I get the fun stuff where I basically just run directly into walls for a few minutes total of a game and saves me the trouble of even attempting to get kills.

So I googled......and googled.
Next steps I took.... I created a static ip address and set it to my router and ps4, didn't fix it.
Set the ps4 in DMZ, didn't fix it.
Made sure UPnP was enabled. No fix.
Used the MAC address from my ps4 and created a high priority traffic setting in my router under the QoS. NO CHANGE.

I don't honestly know anything about systems, or internet in genereal. Everything I've done has been from tutorials, google, you get the point. But I am still seconds behind in games, or can barely find them in general.

Yes, I have a few devices hooked up to the same router... That is something that can't be changed. But I have 30Gigs of high speed a month. Just upgraded to that package recently and pay a stupid amount for it too, all in the sake of trying to play online.
It's not the ps4 itself because I have played online on a wifi connection at a friends house with the same ps4 and had no issues whatsoever....
I've also tried just running wifi and that has done me no good...same connection.

I have noticed on the side of my name during play, while everyone has either yellow or green signal bars...I assume is the PING? I have just one little red one or nothing there at all. Not sure if that has anything to do with it, but please.... someone help me figure out what to do...​

 

First of all, I appreciate your help!
Here's the pins I got for each you asked me to ping.

All 4 pings were received from the default gateway with 0% loss.
Approx. round trip in milli-seconds:
Minimum=1ms, Maximum=1ms, Average=1ms.

All 4 pings were received from ps4's static ip address with 0% loss.
Approx. round trip in milli-seconds:
Minimum=1ms, Maximum=4ms, Average=2ms.

All 4 pings were received from google.ca with 0% loss.
Pinging google.ca [216.58.217.35] with 32 bytes of data:
bytes=32, time=578ms, TTL=54
bytes=32, time=576ms, TTL=54
bytes=32, time=615ms, TTL=54
bytes=32, time=591ms, TTL=54
Approx. round trip in milli-seconds:
Minimum=576ms, Maximum=615ms, Average=590ms.

All 4 pings were received from 8.8.8.8 with0% loss.
Pinging 8.8.8.8 with 32 bytes of data:
bytes=32, time=651ms, TTL=54
bytes=32, time=585ms, TTL=54
bytes=32, time=581ms, TTL=54
bytes=32, time=594ms, TTL=54
Approx. round trip in milli-seconds:
Minimum=581ms, Maximum=651ms, Average=602ms.

I hoped I typed all of that correctly for you, and you can decipher all of that the ways I cannot. lol

 

My Nat Type is set at 2(Open). It was set to Strict somehow until I tried port forwarding last night using the website and codes specifically for ps4. Since I opened those ports I've had Nat 2. Yes, it does happen in all game modes, however I haven't attempted a private match simply because I get kicked for connection problems while in games with friends. It never occurred to me to try a private match instead of just pvp.

 

That just leaves me with the beautiful question of, do you know any ways to fix it? lol

 

C:\Users\Pawn USA>tracert google.ca

Tracing route to google.ca [216.58.217.3]
over a maximum of 30 hops:

1 1 ms 1 ms 1 ms (ip address)
2 * * * Request timed out.
3 * * * Request timed out.
4 * * * Request timed out.
5 * * * Request timed out.
6 582 ms 609 ms 608 ms (address?)
7 * * * Request timed out.
8 842 ms 636 ms 627 ms 67.134.166.226
9 608 ms 566 ms 598 ms 72.14.234.59
10 724 ms 596 ms 600 ms 209.85.250.237
11 585 ms 606 ms 591 ms den03s09-in-f3.1e100.net [216.58.217.3]

Trace complete.

was that right?
I'm assuming those aren't good....

 

Frustrating is definitely understating the feelings I get while emptying a clip into someone's back, just so they can turn around and punch me... lol
I am generally going game with end scores of like 0 or 3 max-25 or more deaths. That's beyond ridiculous to me. Gives me harmful thoughts to my console.

 

For Jump #6 I got as follows..

Pinging with 32 bytes of data:
All 4 received with 0% loss.
bytes=32, time=612ms, TTL=59
bytes=32, time=625ms, TTL=59
bytes=32, time=631ms, TTL=59
bytes=32, time=629ms, TTL=59
Approx. round trip in milli-seconds:
Minimum=612ms, Maximum=631ms, Average=624ms.

 

The internet was "fixed" yesterday.
We were only getting 10 gigs a month, so upped it to 30. They reset everything right there and said we'd be running at high speed until the 16th because that's the end of our monthly cycle then it would restart.

So, from the way it's looking.... there's nothing I can do myself?
If not, if I could get ahold of them, which would most likely be at some point this week, what should I ask them to do, or fix?
I'm clueless as far as talking to someone on the phone and dealing with this sort of thing goes.

Also, a continuous thankyou for all of the help!

 

Yes, the address that I did the test on was different to the one in your google link. I'll run a new one with the numbers from that site and post those. :/