Yeah, but there's nothing in there about speculating about the physical
attributes of his married daughter.
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Her "attributes" are none of your business, and speculation about them
is an invitation to disaster.
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A Deed knocks first at Thought
And then -- it knocks at Will --
That is the manufacturing spot
And Will at Home and well
It then goes out an Act
Or is entombed so still
That only to the ear of God
Its Doom is audible --
Emily Dickinson
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Jam Jam Manen Baddham
Jam Jam Vayen Bhasiyam Pavam
Jam Jam Kayen Kayam
Tass Michhami Dukkaram
Whatever wrong I have done
By thought, word, or deed
I ask for absolution.
jain scripture - acharanga sutra
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If she's married, and employed, I presume she's a grown-up, and able
to take a little ribbing.
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"Presumption" implies a knowledge of the future, which you have
earlier admitted to a lack of and to a lack of the arrogance you said
accompanies it.
"Able to take a little ribbing" implies that, for some reason, you
feel you should be able to take liberties with her which she shouldn't
mind. I find that _extremely_ arrogant.